Every part of me: Susan King


Geneve Thomas-Palmer

Seven years ago, Susan King* decided she was too tired to stay in the closet at her job.

In her previous place of work, King felt as though she had to hide her sexual orientation to keep healthy relationships with her co-workers and her students. She says that she, as an adult, will do what she has to do to navigate the world, and that can be difficult at times.

“I’m out in the sense that that’s who I identify myself to be in the world — and I’m not ashamed of that — what it is is negotiating tough relationships around that,” King said. “How I remain respectful and maintain those relationships, while still maintaining myself. It’s probably the hardest part of my life.”

At CHS, being out as a lesbian helps her feel supported, and feel as though her co-workers and students know more of who she is as a person.

“What’s different here is that it’s not like past situations I’ve had where I could be out because it would be tolerated, it’s that I can be out because you can be out,” King said. “That’s the culture of who we are [at CHS.] I feel like that’s a luxury, it’s a gift, because it hasn’t always been that way, and it’s not that way everywhere.”

King finds it heartbreaking that there are places where people like her are not accepted.

“We all do that,” King said. “We all figure out who we are, but to deny who you are to the point that you wonder if there is something wrong with you — that’s really hard.”

Although King did not grow up in an environment where sexual orientation was discussed, where it was something that didn’t exist, she never wondered if something was wrong with her. She credits her parents for that.

“My parents taught me that I was whole the way that I am,” King said. “My parents taught me that who I was was good enough, and was always going to be good enough. We all go through phases where we question if we’re good enough, but my parents taught me to accept myself and to accept others. They made me really have a love and empathy for others, and taught me that you have to give that to yourself as well.”

King took the advice she was given by her parents, and came to her own conclusions.

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*name changed to protect anonymity